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You'd both be ready to take that step and it'd be a give and take situation, not a demand or a hardship. If she bases important life decisions on what other people appear to have, rather on what works best for you as a couple and each of you as individuals, it doesn't sound promising for a long-term happy relationship.

At 11 months, wouldn't it be more productive to talk about goals, beliefs about relationships and intent, etc? Are you two long distance? Would she give up her current rental to move closer to you? Not living together, but close by? What about compromising or, even better, collaborating! I think at 11 months, I would see this line in the sand as a red flag. Maybe counter offer with "Let's work on our relationship with a couples therapist, making an appointment within the next 7 days , or let each other go our separate ways.

Demanding you sell your house within 3 months? That's a crazy-making! She had no idea what that really entails. Now that I think about it, I'd probably take her approach as a major red flag, and indicator of a part of her you hadn't seen much until now because you've been in the honeymoon stage. Her ultimatum is not really about working together to make the relationship stronger. It's about expectations and control.

If you two are long distance, I understand that might be a difficulty that she wants to resolve, but she's not making this about teamwork and problem solving, which are what a good relationship needs. You can love someone and still not be compatible. This may be coming to light. Sorry to hear this. It would be regrettable to allow someone this unrealistic, immature and demanding to make financial decisions for you especially in the form of blackmail after knowing her less than a year.

Do not sell your place, no less move in with her under duress. If she needs threats to keep and hurry a guy Quite apart from the three months ultimatum, this alone would have me scurrying for the hills.

This is about control, manipulation and a whole pile of stuff which has nothing to do with loving relationships. If you do submit to her demands, you've got a lot more to lose than the equity you've built up in your house.

The ball's actually in your court here - as you say, you only stand to lose whereas she stands to win. Stick by your own domestic arrangement, and if she DOES end the relationship in three months time over this - that's a very clear indication that it's a relationship you shouldn't have been in to begin with.

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Share More sharing options Followers 3. Reply to this topic Start new topic. Recommended Posts. Finnley Posted January 19, Posted January 19, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options ThatwasThen Posted January 19, BTW: What does she mean by "a more normal relationship? Seymore Posted January 19, Sounds manipulative and she definitely sounds immature. I wouldn't sell your place and move in. But you know that this style Auctions are useless without an attached Media You nasty nasty man, thought you could pretend to take your girlfriend to US for a holiday, but all the while planning to sell her.

I still keep the first prophecy that a monk gave me about the first girl i met here 24 years ago ,says we will be happy together ect ect , well did he get it wrong. Interesting, but having read your post of a few days ago about your "crazy wife", my GF fixes my meals, calls me twice a day, cooks for me, mops the floor, bathes my dogs, and massages me every evening already.

And, I didn't have to buy her a house. Shes going next week for a tourist visa, hoping to travel with me a couple of months in the States. Besides, she wants to meet what littles left of my family, and experience a Thanksgiving and Christmas. Anyway, point is, for many years the GFs operated a hair salon in a building her out-of-town aunt owns, and in exchange for maintaining the otherwise vacant building, her aunt allows her to stay rent-free.

So yesterday the GF asked visiting Auntie for a letter, a photo together in front of the salon, and a copy of the house book and Aunties ID card. The monk, who has never met the GF nor myself, performed some mumbo-jumbo, then assured Auntie that the relationship was doomed.

Specifically, once in America, there was going to be a horrible fight, and I would sell the GF. You will, you will The line "he's going to sell you" is not uncommon where the foreigner takes the local lass overseas for a holiday etc, Immigration is known to counsel such folks if the passport is empty. Mrs CM has been through that process twice, twice when exiting Thailand and once when arriving in Hong Kong, the UK on the other hand just waved her through with a yawn!

Actually, I consider paying for land and a house that can only be in her name, a substitute for the life insurance I would buy for an American wife if I lived in the States. So yes, I probably will. Nothing like a meddling monk. You could probably visit him and give him a donation and ask for an updated trip report. He will likely comply. Tell the girlfriend to tell the aunt, she is only using you for sex, that she intends swapping you for something better when she gets to the US.

The Aunt will change instantly! Lucky for me she has a mind of her own and can think for herself. I have taken two Thai girls out of this country. Married both of them, at different times to be sure.

Both girls had their families tell them to be careful, I might sell them. Both girls families knew me well and yet both suffered a lot of anxiety over this.

I was told its a common cause of concern by older Thai relatives. I guess in the old days this happened occasionally. Unfortunately these attitudes have extended from what were common happenings in the past and perhaps is still common practice today.

And this has stuck in the minds of many Thais and Western foreign offices as believing the same is now still prevalent regarding the reasons farangs take young attractive Thai women back to their countries and what is probably behind the way of thinking of the said monk and the aunt.

I know this for a fact because a Thai cousin of my wife done this exactly 3 years ago and she has been the talk of the family ever since. I can remember gong back many years there were articles published in Thai newspapers and magazines warning young Thai women not to become involved and travel abroad with farangs and giving a few alleged horror stories as examples.

I cannot blame the monk and aunt for having concerns and it means that the OP is going to have to prove that his intentions towards his girlfriend are honourable, which I guess is not going to be an easy task.

The OP says that he has some business in the US, and wonder what sort of business that is? Because the aunt is probably wondering the same and also what does the OP actually do in Thailand? And as I said; I can fully understand the attitudes of the monk and the aunt.

I would be more than willing to swop, you can have my wife, but you may have to pay someone - nobody would buy her. Some kind of spirit talker told my wife when we first meet I was going to sell her or do something very bad to her when we go overseas..

Its very funny. There was a lot of detail from the spirit women that just didnet make sense she even said that she meet me and overheard me talking to another farang about the deal I was going to do.. The answer is hidden in an INR75, crore war chest. Choose your reason below and click on the Report button. This will alert our moderators to take action. Stock analysis. Market Research. Nifty 17, Honeywell 45, Market Watch.

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